Chapter 394: Do not be happy with things, do not be sad with yourself
Chapter 394: Do not be happy with things, do not be sad with yourself
When people reach a certain age, they must learn to think alone.
The friends we made in childhood all have the most real emotional needs. They don’t care too much about gains and losses, but focus on personal feelings!
The friends we make when we grow up are often the result of our value and interest tendencies, and are very likely not so pure.
It is not terrible to have no friends. What is terrible is to make friends randomly because of loneliness.
Post less on your Moments when there is nothing to do. Less talk means less trouble!
Try not to attend drinking parties with more than five people. If you are not outstanding, it’s useless to know anyone!
As long as there is no conflict of interest, there is generally no need to refute what others say!
Don't get too close to anyone, because you never know when you might become your enemy!
What determines what you wear is not your wallet, but your figure!
What determines your temper is not your long-standing character, but the position you are in!
What determines your taste in life is never your academic qualifications, but your life experience!
There is no need to pretend that you are living a good life. In fact, not many people care whether you are living a good life or not. It turns out that a lot of concern is just to find out how miserable your life is.
Don't tell even the gods about what you really want to do, just do it quietly until you succeed. Secrecy leads to success, while disclosure leads to failure.
When making money with physical labor, try to be honest; when making money with brain power, be more flexible and agile; when making money with money, you must be ruthless; when making money with resources, you should go with the flow and be more tactful.
You should learn to save money as early as possible, delay enjoyment, suffer first and then enjoy. Good days are all in the future, and every day in the future will be brand new...
Always remember, you are in a different position, so stay out of it.
Don’t argue with people who have different opinions.
If you have different views, there is no need to waste your breath arguing.
Liu Yuan has experienced many worldly experiences and too many human ups and downs. He has felt the warmth and kindness of this world, but he has also suffered ruthless betrayal and hurt.
These past experiences gave him a deep understanding of human nature and made him realize that the world is not black and white.
Gradually, he learned to let go of the pain and resentment of the past, and to face all the disappointments in life with a tolerant heart.
Stop complaining about the unfairness of fate and choose to accept reality and work hard to change what you can change.
He took "not being happy with things, not being sad with oneself" as his life creed, which meant that he would not be overly happy because of external material enjoyment, nor would he be overly sad because of personal gains and losses.
He believes that only by maintaining inner peace and composure can one better cope with the challenges of life.
At the same time, Liu Yuan also learned to cherish the people and things around him and no longer miss every beautiful moment easily.
He learned to be grateful, thankful to those who had helped him, and grateful for everything life had given him.
He understood that the meaning of life is not to pursue fame, wealth and power, but to feel the beauty of life with your heart and share this beauty with others.
Therefore, although Liu Yuan has seen through the joys and sorrows of this world, he has not become indifferent or heartless.
Instead, he looks at the world with a more mature and tolerant attitude and strives to make himself a better person.
He knew that no matter what difficulties and challenges he would encounter in the future, as long as he persisted in his beliefs, he would be able to get out of the predicament and embrace new hope.
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